My fiancee and I are planning to get married soon. And to the best of my knowledge, we have to be married for at least before he can adopt my children. I need help finding info on the process of filing for the adoption. Is this something can be done only with an attorney or can it be done pro se? And we will more than likely have some bumps in the road because my daughter’s father has already said he would consent to the adoption. My son’s father on the other hand, I know how he is and I don’t think he would consent. He hasn’t had any contact with my son in two years. He pays child support on a not so regular basis. Is there anyway to bypass him in the process? And I don’t know where he lives now or how to even go about getting ahold of him so how would we be able to let him know when it it time since he has to be made aware of the adoption? All of his family has moved and all numbers have been changed, I have no way of finding out where he is now. And even if he is found, is there any
that they would grant the adoption even if he won’t give up his rights? The age of my daughter is 6 and my son is 4. They both know my fiancee overseas online pharmacy as daddy and none of us want that to change. I’ve looked at some websites and still didnt find any helpful info and some sites i didnt understand at all. Anyone who can help other than telling me to contact an attorney would be helpful.